Archive for the ‘Communication’ Category

The Art of Reflective Listening

Communication As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I listen to a lot of marital arguments. Sometimes the arguments get so heated that I feel more like a referee than a therapist! Other times, the partners are so frustrated with each other that they don’t speak directly to one another at... more

Ineffective Conflict Styles in Marriage

Communication If I had to pick just three words to describe marriage, I would steal a quote from a mentor of mine, Dr. Harold Wahking.  His quote is this: “Marriage is therapy.”  And just like therapy, what we put in is often what we get out.  With over half of... more

Five Steps to Successfully Manage Disagreements

Communication Couples disagree about a vast array of things such as what constitutes a clean house, how to discipline the kids, how often to have sex, how much money to put away in savings, how to argue appropriately, and which partner actually has a communication problem. Having a disagreement is... more

Other Points of View

Communication To completely accept your spouse, you must also accept and respect their points of view even if you don’t understand their point of view. more

Communicate Your Needs

Communication It’s common for partners to assume that if their spouse really loved them they would know what they need, but it’s important to clearly express your needs to your spouse. more

Do What Is Right

Communication It’s important to let go of your need to be right. In this video, Beth talks about how the need to be right impedes your relationship. more

Emotional Intimacy

Communication Emotional intimacy can help create a more powerful physical intimacy. Listen to Beth talk about how sharing feelings can strengthen your marriage. more

Other Points of View

Communication Burying feelings of anger can be harmful to your relationship. It’s important to learn how to disagree respectfully with your spouse. more

Other Messages

Communication You use more than just words to communicate. Listen to Beth talk about the signals we send with our body language and the tone of our voice. more

Understanding Men

Communication In this video, Listen to Beth talk about how men really do want to be understood. more