Archive for the ‘Counseling’ Category

Couples Counseling – When To Go What To Know

Counseling As a relationship therapist, I know all too well how hard it can be for men and women to seek professional help when problems arise. But in my experience, those who do get therapy find it’s well worth the effort. Counseling can help couples overcome the obstacles that routinely... more

Seeking Outside Help

Counseling In this video, Beth talks about a man’s view of seeking outside help with marital problems and what a woman can do to help. more

Your Life

Counseling Feeling good about the person you are is an important part of being involved in a successful marriage. Learn a tip to help do this from Beth. more

Your Real Values

Counseling Something that can help you in your marriage is to take some time to identify what your values and priorities in your life. Listen as Beth explains why this is important. more

The Importance Of Marriage Counseling

Counseling A lot of people think that going to marriage counseling means failure in your marriage, but in reality it can be the first step in strengthening it in ways you never thought possible. Counselors are experienced and have specific solutions to specific problems. more

To End or Not to End Your Relationship

Counseling Vanessa, 30 years old, is struggling with whether or not to end her six-year marriage. The answer is not at all clear to her. Vanessa and Jon have a “good” marriage. They are kind and caring with each other. They enjoy many of the same things. So why is... more

What to Throw Overboard When Your Marriage Is In Trouble

Counseling When your marriage is in trouble and you’re fighting to keep it afloat, it’s time to throw anything that isn’t helping you overboard. You need all your wits about you to be able to handle the crisis and tackle the problems. Anything that’s an impediment or hindrance has to... more

Can a Marital Separation Ever Save a Marriage?

Counseling As an experienced counselor, one of the questions I’m asked frequently is, “Can a marital separation ever save a marriage?” My answer is a qualified “yes.” Sometimes a couple is miserable living together and can’t seem to co-exist without having constant harping and bickering. If they have children, they... more

What About Drugs for Anxiety and Depression?

Counseling As a counselor, I am often asked, “Can drugs be helpful for anxiety and depression?” The answer I give is “Yes” and “No.” Yes, drugs may be useful for short-term help. No, drugs are not a good long-term solution. Anxiety and depression are not caused by a lack of... more

Before You Begin Marriage Counseling, Ask This Question

Counseling There’s an important question that you need to ask the marriage counselor you and your spouse are considering using. The question itself may surprise you, as well as the answer your potential counselor gives. It’s an often-overlooked question that hardly anyone ever talks about. Therapists don’t include it in... more